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Ben Blushi: How religions have been used by men against women

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Ben Blushi: How religions have been used by men against women
Ben Blushi

Unfortunately, religions have given men the right to decide over women...

During the conversation I had in Korca to promote the novel Jam Musliman, I also spoke about the very masculine character of religions. All religions, but especially Christianity and Islam, have been used by men to subjugate women.

The holy books say that women should cover themselves and lower their gaze to restrain men's lust, while men are not required to do so.

If both sexes are equally exposed to bodily desire, then just as women are covered, men should have been covered as well so as not to arouse women's lust.

Imagine if this religious requirement had become a custom and men lowered their eyes every time they looked at a woman, how much violence, pain, and murder would have been avoided from the history of humanity, filled with so many crimes that men have committed against women.

Unfortunately, religions have given men the right to rule over women.

Both Christianity and Islam have all male prophets and no major prophet is a woman.

These prophets took more than one wife and very often treated them as slaves regardless of their age.

This practice is still followed today in many countries, as is the case in my novel I Am Muslim, which tells how a 70-year-old man married a 12-year-old girl.

The appointment of people who were to regulate the relationship between God and people also proceeded along this male line.

The clergy are all men.

No priest is a woman and no imam is a woman.

How different would the relationship between man and faith be if the Pope were a lady, or if the Bishops were women, or if the call to prayer in mosques were sung by beautiful women's voices.

Religions would be more beautiful and much more peaceful.

Women would have gained more rights centuries ago.

But this did not happen.

Men have held a monopoly on God's work by using God to dominate their family.

This masculine aspect of religions is undoubtedly one of the darkest.

This is enough to understand how religions are oriented by narrow earthly interests and not at all by the interests of the societies in which they were born.

God himself has been portrayed as a misogynist who has given more rights to men than women, and this has unfortunately been accepted by women themselves.

From the first day when he created woman from a rib of man, God decided to side with men.

This is enough to understand that even God himself is a creature of men's imagination.

Men created God, giving him their harsh features and their insensitivity.

Since ancient times, men have been obsessed with sculpting an image of God that has not only masculine features but also a masculine mindset.

God creating a woman from a man's rib actually goes against the laws of nature which have decreed that a man is created, that is, born from a woman.

During the debate in Korca, one of the guests told me that there are saints in the Christian religion.

It's true.

But they only become so after death.

If women do not die, they do not serve the Church as a model.

blushi feja burrat gratë

6 Komente

  1. F
    Feti Dema

    Sot z.Blushi, ka një debat publik rreth korrupsionit dhe rënies së shtetit, për shkak të tij. Burrat dhe gratë nën Edi Ramën, pamvarësisht besimit ,kanë ndërtuar mes tyre në harmoni marrëdhënie vllazërore. Ke ndonji gjë për të na thënë? Apo do shkruash në librin pasues. Por ka mundësi që librit pasues t'ja kenë dhi subjektin dhe tematikën: telenovelat shqiptare , një bashkëpunim i kineastëve shqiptaro-turk-indian dhe spanjoll.

    1. D
      Dalan shaqa

      Ben leni grate burrat e fete beniu gati per me vizitu spakn se po tvje rradha me kthy gjon e grabitme.

      1. M
        Misogjinizmi në Bibël

        "lf one person believes something illogical, he is called fool - but if ten million people believe the same illogical thing, it is called religion. (Voltaire) ___________________ Çfarë thotë Bibla në lidhje me mizogjinizmin ndaj grave? Te Bibla 1 Timothy, Kapitulli 2:4: 8 Në mënyrë të njëjtë dua që edhe gratë, të vishen hijshëm, me cipë dhe modesti dhe jo me gërsheta a me ar, a me margaritarë, a me rroba të shtrenjta, 9 po me vepra të mira, si u ka hije grave që i kushtohen perëndishmëri. 10 Gruaja le të mësojë në heshtje dhe me çdo nënshtrim. 11 Nuk e lejoj gruan që të mësojë, as të përdori pushtet mbi burrin, por të rrijë në heshtje. Te 1CORINTHIANS 14:34 Gratë tuaja të heshtin në kishë, sepse nuk u lejohet të flasin, por duhet të nënshtrohen, sikurse thotë edhe ligji. 35 Dhe në qoftë se duan të mësojnë ndonjë gjë, le të pyesin burrat e tyre në shtëpi, sepse është e turpshme për gratë të flasin në kishë.

        1. d
          deshtaku me patent

          Sa harxhon oksigjen kot.. pa lidhje.. i deshtuar ne cdo drejtim ne jete.

          1. S
            Shqiptari patriot

            Llogjika e nje KAMELEINI….KY ESHTE PROBLEMI AKTUAL I POPULLIS SOT…FETE…A MOR BLUSH MANI…KU DUHET TE ISHE E KUNJE…KTHJE KOKEN NJEHER MBRAPA E SHIF HIJEN TENDE…POR MANI MANI BEN MANI…LEKSIONE PER FENE….U KUUUUBKUUUU KU KATANDISI BEN MANI…KA DHE SHOM IDEALI..GRIDA DUMAN EEE KAMELEONIN KRESHNIK…MANI…QE NGELI DUKE DHEN MEND NE TV…DUKUR BALL KAXANI NE OPOZIT…SOT TE GJITHE KETA KANE NJE MBIEMER….MANI MANI…SHKRUANI NJA DY FJAL ME KER TEM O PAMFLET VELLAI

            1. R
              Roku

              Ky nuk di ku te kapet. Nuk i jep kush leke. Tani po fillon ideologjine gender dhe po vazhdon teorite fetare. Te jesh 55vjec i falimentuar eshte tragjedi..

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