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Xheneta Fetahu has spoken about her childhood and her biological mother, who abandoned her when she was a child.
Xheneta says it was a very difficult time, but at the age of 7 everything changed because Sabrina was in her life.
"Growing up without your mother, I don't know if there is a greater pain. I have had the honor and great fortune to have had Sabrina in my life, since the age of 7 everything changed," said Fetahu.
The latter adds that she has not forgiven her biological mother, because in a difficult moment for her, she gave her the opportunity to meet and her mother did not accept.
Xheneta even has a message for him, urging him not to abandon the children he lives with, not to make them experience the same thing she experienced.
Tell us a little about little Xheneta, that fragile child you were in your childhood?
When it comes to my life when I was little, I get very emotional and it always takes me back to that difficult time I had. It was a life with many challenges that I would not want any man or girl to experience what I experienced. I believe that there are girls who have experienced more than me, because everyone seems to have their own worst pain. Growing up without your mother is not a greater pain. I had the honor and great luck to have Sabrina in my life, since the age of 7 everything changed. It was no longer a life with many sacrifices, waking up very early, doing all those things at home as if you were a married woman, not enjoying your childhood. Now it remains a challenge that has made me the person I am today and so strong. I face every challenge.
What message would you give to all the girls and women who didn't grow up with a mother?
I think that every child, both boys and girls, wants to grow up with both parents because there is no better dream and greater love. Even for those who don't have that luck, I told you not to despair because someone may come into your life who loves you more than your biological parent, who will make you happy your whole life. I think that a parent is not just the one who gives birth to you, but also the one who cares for you and educates you. Some time ago I had those thoughts, about getting married, having children, and I was always afraid that I would make the same mistake that my biological mother made, that I would be prejudiced. I said 'no, I don't want to be like that'. And every time I talk to Sabrina, she tells me 'you will have my blood, you will be like me, you will be the best mother in the world'.
As we speak today, have you forgiven him within yourself?
No, because even when I gave her the chance to meet me, she was not grateful at all. When I gave her the chance, I was very sad and I thought I would be happy, but she made me feel worse. If she sees this statement of mine, I would like her to learn this lesson so that she never leaves the children she is living with now. No one can fill that void inside me, but at least don't make other children experience it.
Do you imagine yourself as a mother in the future? What would Xheneta be like as a mother?
I think I will be the most caring and dedicated mother ever.
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