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Dea Mishel felt very feminist yesterday and made a long and wide post where she talks about herself and all the girls who are judged in our society.
She writes that she has achieved everything in life by herself, but she has again faced prejudices that a man is behind her achievements and this is not true at all.
Dea says that she has chosen to be a free, invincible girl and that she is creating all the opportunities for herself.
In the 'sheet' post, the blonde model writes:
It's strange how since the 1400s we continue to call strong, demanding, determined women 'witches'. As if a woman's ability to achieve her goals was created only if she was helped by the supernatural. You must have made a pact with the devil, because you can't be that invincible. A man in front of you can make a mistake, but 'it's okay that he's good if you know him', or 'he's forgiven for being nervous', while when a woman makes a mistake, she's a bitch, a witch, evil. Meanwhile, you as a woman go to hell for having an opinion or brushing your hair wrong one day.
I feel that throughout my career my mistakes have been scrutinized, while my achievements have been nibbled to shreds to nothing, by the hands of maniacs who don't want to accept that a 'blonde' girl can create something. For 9 years, I wake up every day and work hard. I have done everything by myself, every day of my life, alone. What I heard was 'no dad', 'a relationship is suspected'. It is always an imaginary man. And indeed there is always a man to spoil your work. A man who takes your job, or gives the job to the woman you have sex with, a man who befriends you to put the woman in the job you deserve, a man who is never judged anyway. You can imagine how many times I cried in my room because I didn't get what I deserved from a man. Indeed,
I'm tired of seeing very strong girls shrinking themselves to fit in and be liked. And I get tired, and I say what am I doing this for? I want to wake up a man one day. I ask a lot. I want a lot and I want to achieve it all by myself. I have more b*le than most men I've ever known and maybe if I were a man I'd be praised for it. But I'm a girl, I'm brazen, 'how dare that witch'. Then I remember, there are other girls like me. Like me when I was 18 and started and didn't know where I was going with my life. I had only one dream and everyone was against it. Like me when I can't make compromises. Like me who cannot become the shadow of a man to walk before. Like I've heard all kinds of dirty insults and I go on with myself because it's the only thing I have, that's kept me going, that's helped me move forward. Like me who cries a lot, I don't ignore any kind of tears. Like me who seems to have to work 10 times harder to achieve something simple. Like me, who has not yet done a quarter of what I dream of. But in the end I manage to spoil myself. Like me creating opportunities for myself more than any man would ever do for me. Like I don't need any. Like me that at the end of the day, I'm beautiful again. That's how I decide. Because I am free, indestructible, creative, 'witch'.
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