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Dea's all-black outfit seemed to foreshadow the pain and suffering of the story she shares in "Ka Një Mesazh Për Ty" from "E Diela Shqiptare" on Tv Klan. Her story begins with her family, which consists of five sisters and one brother. When Dea was born, her father fell ill with Parkinson's and her mother became a heroine, taking care of her and the children.
In 1985, Dea got married through an arranged marriage and a year later, the first blessing came, a son. 4 years after that, a daughter was born and for Dean there was no greater happiness, even though his heart was troubled.
"In '86, God brought me a beautiful star, my son, Sildi. I was so pleased and so happy that I cannot express my emotions as a happy mother and when the boy turned 4, I gave birth to my darling, my beautiful daughter, Era. As the children grew up, the more they grew and became more beautiful, they were smart, loving, hardworking. I was very happy for these children despite the fact that my problems had long started with my husband.
Despite their problems, alcohol and her husband's infidelity, Dea couldn't bear to worry about her children. They were a light to her until one day, nothing would shine as before. Dea lost her 14-year-old daughter and just when she thought she could console herself with her son, her heart was forever black.
Dea: On a black Wednesday, October 1, 2003, I lost one of my eyes, a leg and an arm were amputated, and my only daughter was lost at the age of 14, not even 15.
What happened?
Dea: She was in a flu-like condition. We took her, took her to the hospital in Korça, in the pediatrics department. There were complications, they took her urgently by ambulance to bring her to Tirana and she died on the way. The boy was very touched. He went through a lot of pain, he closed in on himself. I tried to stay close to him, his father never took him with him to keep him close so that he wouldn't feel the absence of his sister. They were very close. The boy had many dreams, he worked alongside me but he had begun to understand them as he was growing up, he had begun to understand everything his father did. I said I have a light that shines and this boy will light up my whole world.
It was the reason you breathed.
Dea : He promised me that he would continue high school, whatever his eyes saw, his hand would do. "Mom, I will continue high school," he said. At the age of 20, he went into a fainting spell, a heart attack. After I lost my son, I went into a state of shock. I neither ate nor drank. My mother sat there beside me, who did not know about the relationship I had with my husband. I had not told her.
Did your mother come to live there with you?
Dea: Yes, to support me in those moments.
Then he probably experienced your relationship too.
Dea: Very right. I had made it clear to him that I would live with the memory of my children. I kissed the window handles, that was all I had with the memory of my children./tvklan.al
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