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Renowned neonatologist and pediatrician, Edi Tushe, spoke with great sensitivity about his personal life during an interview on "Galeri" with Edi Manushi.
During the conversation, Tushe confessed that since 2003 he has had no communication with his son from his first marriage, who lives in Canada.
"I have also tried to connect with my ex-wife's people, because I have a good relationship with them. He is in Canada. It is not easy to escape a certain indoctrination. All those who fled there with my son have cut all ties with Albania," Tushe said.
The pediatrician revealed that his son, Idlir, had once expressed a desire to follow his professional path.
"My son saw in Tirana how much we loved him. There is also a photo from my office and that's where he got the desire to continue medicine," he said, adding that he doesn't know how to explain the reason for the breakup.
Tushe conveyed a touching message for her son:
"He is my son. I would like to have him in my arms and for him to be happy, successful in life, to have fulfilled his dreams. That would be the only thing I would want for him. I myself have suffered, and suffering makes a person softer, sweeter, but sometimes even harsher. It depends on how you see life."
Tushe recalled his teenage years, recounting a touching conversation he had with his father:
“At one point when I was a teenager, the period when you oppose your parents and see them as ignorant or out of date, I said to my father: ‘Why do you speak Italian like that, what is this lame Italian?’ And he said to me: ‘True, son, I am not as knowledgeable as you, but the goal of a parent is to make the child more knowledgeable about himself. But remember, every time you say I am the son of so-and-so, hold your head high, so that no one can say who has these parents.’”
He added that he had learned a valuable lesson about family harmony from his parents:
"I asked my father: if there is a problem between me and my mother, who will you be with? He told me 'with my mother'. I was a little upset, expecting a different answer. Later I asked my mother the same thing, and she told me 'with my father'. This was a wonderful example of harmony, which makes the whole family healthy."
In the interview, Tushe also spoke about his brother, who according to him went through a very difficult period during the years of communism.
"When my brother was 16, he met an Italian girl, the daughter of a diplomat in Tirana. They were just friends, they were kids, they practiced basketball together. But when he reached adulthood, in his first year of college, they arrested him. The first charge was 'high treason against the homeland' and 'espionage for four foreign agencies'. For a boy who had just turned 18, this was absurd. All that time was absurd," said the doctor.
Ky eshte maskara i maskarenjve, nje monster e vertete. Pervers. Po djalin aty e kishe pa ikur ne Kanada, djali te erdhi ne 2077 o mashtrues dhe jo ne 2003 qe genjen ti. Athere ishe i krehur me stil e sh i ngrefosur ndaj bej çudi si merr mundimin ti te japesh intervista kaq nostalgjike…ti mashtrues. Po tamam tamam ty te njef ish gruaja dhe gruaja tani Adriana Misja qe e ke rrahur e masakruar dhe ne sy te kolegeve ne Maternitetin e Tiranes. Çte beje korba e hengri sapunin per djathe, la ate pik burri Gjergji Shuteriqi dhe u perzje me ty qe je llum i llumit. Po ti kur djali ishte i vogel teper i vogel u terbove e beje jete çakerqejfi zarbe. Nena e tij e rriti me shume sakrifica dhe perkushtim , kurse ti beje deklarata se per kariere prish dhe familjen sikurse dhe e prishe. Ti je njeri i konjukturave dhe intrigave. Tek ish shefja jote veje pernate medemek se shikoje televizor dhe pse ne shtepi e kishit televizorin, po papritur dhe pakujtuar i bere puçin ish shefes qe per muaj te tere ngryseshit bashke ne shtepine e saj dhe ne mbledhjen qe u be ti bere çmos, qe ta shkarkonin nga detyra. Ja ky monster je ti. Apo te doli demode ish shefja. Je shume i kapshem per te shfrytezuar te tjeret ti dhe per ti rrenuar per perftimet e tua. Ashtu si veprove me ish gruan qe ishte mbesa e Haki Tiskes dhe ti e shfruytezove per tu transferuar nga Kukesi ne Tirane. Jeta tende ka qene si shahist per te luajtur guret e shaut. Ti ke luajtur me njerezit rreth teje dhe jeten e djalit tend sikur i kishe gure shahu. Ti je i oashpirt me femijen tend dhe me gruan tani, Adriana Misja. Tani kushedi ku te fle Lepuri qe u kujtove per djalin se kur kishte nevoje djali per ty qe nga kerkesat me minimale e deri ne marrjen e shume vendimeve ne jeten e tij ti nuk u bere i gjalle. Ti je mashtrues, genjen kur thua djali erdhi ne 2003, genjen doktor ka qene viti 2007. Dhe erdhi djali per t’ju takuar jo ti se ti beje jete cakerrqejfi dhe nga alkooli qe pije neper lokale bije me kembe perpjete nga karikja dhe ste zinte njeri me dore as gruaja jote e dyte se i vinte ndot dhe turp nga ty. Do kesh qene i pire doktor ose atehere kur te takoj djali ose ate dite ne interviste. Ku te fle lepuri doktor pa nuk ke as din as iman ti si per djalin dhe as oer gruan e dyte qe ka hequr piken e zeze nga ty. Nuk dime kush genjen nga ju te dy vellezerit, ti qe nuk te ka pelqyer italishtja e babajt tend apo yt vella qe thote babaj jone kishte studjuar ne Itali, kete sa per te treguar sa ordinere jeni ju.
Kujt ja ka shprehur djali jot deshiren per te studjuar per mjek more mashtrues. Po ti sdije ku kishe koken more qen bir qeni. Kur djali tend ishte ne universitet ishte dhe jetonte me nenen e tij heroine qe e hoqi zvarre si macja mine qysh kur ti i bere divorcin ish gruas tende dhe deri me sot qe ti kujtohesh per evlatin tend. Turp te te vije madhtrues dhe intrigant na tregon perralla kalamajsh jo i thashe babit keshtu dhe mamit ashtu. Duke idealizuar prinderit dhe familjen tende. Ti qe je terrorizuar me zorren e ujit lakuriq me by*e perjashta nga nje nene sadiste me kartele skizofrenie. Ti mashtrues qe dhe per denimin e vellajt mesiguri ke gisht aq i pabese ke qene. Ty qe te gjeti ne krevatin dopjo Gjergji Shuteriqi alamet djali dhe i shkaterrove familjen. Ti je llumi i llumit po me mire te njeh gruaja e dyte ty more zarbe e zarbave. Qe e ke poshteruar e masakruar ne kolektivin e punes tek materniteti i vjeter. E di pse se te gjithe qe njifnin ish gruan te mallkonin e thoshin ishalla perfundon me Adriana Misjan qe e kishe kolege ne maternitet dhe ta rrihje e ta dhunoje mes kolegeve. Dhe keshtu ndodhi more zagarr i zagarreve per te dale e drejta e nenes te djalit tend qe nuk e suportove ne rritjen e tet biri. Si more tu ngjallen morrat ty dhe u kujtove per djalin tend Idlir. Dhe pa pike turpi deklaron: Une dua ta kem ne krah djalin tim. Po kur kidhte nevoje djali tend e ti u çakerrdise e haje e pije ne restirantet me te shtrenjta ku ishe ti zarbe. Ku te fle lepuri dooooktor pa leri keto pallavra ti mashtrues. Erdhi djali ju kerkoj ju dhe jo juve ate. Pale qe ti ske ditur ku kishe koken maskara i maskarenjve. Djali erdhi dhe e percaktoj me gojen e tij se cfare monster je ti. Ti nuk behesh njeri ti ske ndergjegje. Doktoor dardha e ka bishtin mbrapa. Te kujtohet kur te diskreditonte yt vella e te thoshte si more le ate grua te ndershme dhe more kete kurve qe te dy i perdhoset shtepine Gjergji Shuteriqit. Doktooor ja te erdhi dhe mosha e pensionit, se shpejti mbyll dhe karieren qe thoje une per kariere shkaterroj dhe familjen ja ke mbushur dhe doren me para po te gjitha ikin e vene rendesi ka te kesh familjen, te kesh djalin tend ne krah po u kujtove vone shume vone. I thone nje fjale kur te vine mente sti hane as qente. Tani varr ato medaljet e shkolles ne kornize o te fshifte mortja kur ske turp e mburresh me to si kalama. Turp te te vije o cope e mishit. Mburu me to se ste ka ngelur gje e mbylle me turp o kriminel i djalit tend. Ti je i shitur dhe i blere nuk je Prind, nuk mesove kurre te ishe baba. Ky eshte mallkimi me i madh qe ke mare nga Zoti.