
Marseli, who is the father of two children today, tells how he married a matchmaker and then family problems started with his wife.
He says that his wife threatened him, beat his children and his mother. According to him, the woman had not even told him about a marriage she had earlier.
Marseli: I got married 7 years ago. I married a matchmaker. At first the girl told me that I had an engagement and I had a relationship with family acquaintances and I had no problem with this. But the woman was married before and I found out when we made the passports. The reason for divorce is adultery. She was married, her passport had been taken and her ex-husband's people were keeping her at home. Seven years of marriage have been a struggle. Struggle in meaning with my mother, brother and sister-in-law. She blamed me and my mother, she didn't differentiate between my mother-in-law and me. I bought some clothes in Italy and he told me that my girlfriends bought them, accusations without facts. When I got home he had torn his clothes. I told him that those clothes are 200 euros.
He told me you are nothing and they will take you around. She was always asking for more. Whether or not she loved them, seeing that the economic situation was not good, we survived. I installed the cameras because she abused the children and my mother. I decided because we could not press charges, because the police said there was no evidence. The cameras are not placed in the toilet or in places where there is privacy. The lady abused the children and threatened them. The protection order was made by the father, not the lady. Her family's attitude was that I married my daughter here and she will stay here, there is a state and police and you report anything. I used psychological violence and for 6 months I stayed in a rented house, I am away from home. Even her father started with threats, he said that my daughter has the house with me. In a conversation with her father, she says I have the coffin ready.
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