
During the premiere of Ferma VIP, a story involving Ylli Dreshaj shocked the audience.
After the latter revealed during the week that he is married, but in the process of divorcing, his wife sent him a letter claiming that their separation came because, according to her, Ylli has a liking for men, and that he is using this story for his own benefit.
"I have been in a relationship with this person for 8 years. A long period that was built on love and plans. In 2022 we decided to get engaged, in 2023 we got married. During all this time he lived in Kosovo, I in Germany. In 2024 he came to Germany for 2 weeks. My father gave him this opportunity. During this time, I began to have suspicions that he was more interested in men than women. I have proof," she wrote.
Regarding these accusations, Ylli has described them as base attacks. He told another version of the story, where according to him, the real cause of the separation is the partner's parents.
Ylli: I am not affected at all by what she said. It is very true that some of the words she said that we have known each other since 2013. As for my liking for men, it is invented by her and her family. I left that family after I was in Kosovo. We had a good relationship. If I had liked men, I would have separated in time. We separated because of her family. The reality of history is that we were good while I was in Kosovo, we had a good relationship together, I had maximum respect for her family, everyone knows how much I loved her family. I went there in March 2023, I went on March 15.
My grandfather, who is no longer alive, was the person who told me 'be careful when you go'. I didn't listen to him, I went there. We stayed together. They welcomed me very well. For the week they welcomed me, it was very good, but the whole time they had tendencies towards me, they talked about my family's divorce, they talked about it. I haven't had any chance to have a serious conversation with my fiancée, starting with her mother, with her sisters. She has let her family be against me. In Kosovo, I have agreed that I don't even want a wedding, nothing else.
We got engaged while we were in Kosovo. We decided to go to Germany to have a small wedding. I told her 'I'm coming there to work so I can buy her veils and dresses'. I sacrificed myself by quitting my job and running away. Our divorce is because of her family. At one point I was talking to her, she has a nephew that I love very much, and at one point I called her 'idiot', and she said to me in a word that you said again, and her mother said 'hit her with a glass' and she hit me, and I got up and slapped her. Her family didn't let me live with her.
Her father found me an apartment and she cried a lot because she told me 'I didn't want you to go out to the apartment'. I told my family that 'when I'm with him, I don't want anyone to interfere', I want to agree when we want.
I have been in a relationship with this person for 8 years. A long period that was built on love, understanding, and shared plans for the future.
Meanwhile, in her letter, Ylli's wife writes: "In 2022 we decided to get engaged, a year later, in 2023 we got married civilly. During all this time he lived in Kosovo and I in Germany. In 2024 he came to Germany for 2 weeks in order to work and contribute financially to the organization of our wedding celebration, which was very important to both of us. My father gave him this opportunity. During this time, I began to have serious doubts that he was more interested in men than in women. These doubts were not unfounded, I have concrete evidence that supports these concerns.
Unfortunately, after a verbal conflict between us, he left suddenly. Since that day, he has not tried to contact me again. I have made numerous attempts to communicate with him, but he has chosen to block me and my family on every social network, cutting off all forms of communication. We are currently still married, there is no process in progress. Our parents have met and talked, agreeing to discuss it only when we are in Kosovo. This situation
It has hurt me deeply. He is using our story to profit from this story. I ask him to stop immediately.
"I am making this public clarification because I have learned that he is using the history of our relationship for personal gain and to advance his career. I want to politely address him and invite him to stop immediately. I encourage him to continue his professional path but without including our history."
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